Every argument has
two truths
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Based on relationship science
RelateWise detects Gottman's Four Horsemen — the four communication patterns most predictive of relationship failure.
Criticism
Attacking your partner's character instead of addressing a specific behavior.
Contempt
Treating your partner with disrespect — sarcasm, mockery, eye-rolling.
Defensiveness
Meeting complaints with excuses or counter-attacks instead of listening.
Stonewalling
Withdrawing from interaction — shutting down, going silent, walking away.
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